
October 23, 2019 Break the Cycle
Break the Cycle – Childhood Exposure to Violence
Domestic violence affects more than just the people directly involved. Family, friends, and especially children are affected. More than 3 million children each year witness domestic violence in their home. Whether or not children are the victim of physical abuse, they often suffer from psychological and emotional trauma. Children can become fearful and anxious which can cause them to act out or become socially isolated.
Children are exposed to domestic violence in many different ways such as:
- Seeing a parent threatened, demeaned, or battered
- Being in the middle of an assault by accident
- Overhearing conflict and battering
- Seeing the aftermath such as injuries and trauma reactions
- Living in a household dominated by tension and fear
- Being used and manipulated by the abuser
- Suffering the consequences of economic abuse
The consequences of these exposures can include:
- Believing the abuse is their fault
- Turning against parents
- Feeling that they are alone
- Being afraid to talk about the abuse
- Developing negative core beliefs about themselves
- Developing unhealthy coping and survival reactions
- Believing that this behavior is normal
- Exhibiting those behaviors in their own future relationships
According to https://www.futureswithoutviolence.org/ long term effects of exposure to domestic violence include a higher risk for substance abuse, sexual acting out, running away, and suicide. Boys who grow up with domestic abuse are more likely to abuse their intimate partners, and girls are less likely to seek help if they become victims in their adult relationships. Domestic violence is a vicious cycle which can take out anyone in its path. By breaking the cycle children can grow up to live healthy loving lives creating a new cycle, that can be passed down to future generations.
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